If only everybody is patient. There are times when you need to hurry up, 'like saving someone from fire', but there are times when you do not need to be impatient at all. For example, if you are walking and there is someone in front of you who is walking really slow, you have a lot of choices. A lot will be like, 'haiyo, move so slow!'. But you can choose, either ask politely or just go with the flow. We can avoid conflict this way.

Patience has helped me to avoid conflicts. Just a few hours ago, I was walking back home from a lesson, and there's this fierce-looking teenage man in a coffee shop who bumped into me purposely. I can feel it, it was really on purpose. He stopped and turned to me, unhappy. But, I was patient, and smiled at him. The look on his face was priceless, he smiled awkwardly. Being me (hehs), I tried to be more friendly with him and shook his hand and apologised. His hands were really big and rough, but I was not intimidated. He nodded with a true-er smile now, and we separated there. Like a love movie. haha. That was love yeah.

Friendly and being polite i think, comes naturally when you are really patient. I am not talking about being friendly with friends.... Im talking about being friendly with strangers. Being polite to them. Its really magical, because it is kind of contagious. At the coffee shop just now, there was a man who stared at me from a distance. When I looked at him, he was still staring! I was a little bit shaken, but I managed and smiled. Oh wow! He smiled back, surprised (yet again). It really warms my heart, and it should have warmed his heart too. A few days ago, there was this elderly woman who walked alone on the roadside. I just went up to her and said 'Hello!', and did her face lit up! I talked to her about my O Level results, and she talked about her grandson's education. She was never to be seen again in my neighbourhood. =(

Being angry and have bad temper. haha. This a bad disease yo. It can make people dislike each other, it can mean long years of friendship *poof* just like that. When someone is angry towards you, I don't think you should react back by being angry with that person. Its like destroying both of you. Soo, the best way to resolve this problem is to find out the problem, be patient (always, very important tool) and talk things out. Or you can just talk things out by smiling, thats good.! =) Oh , I remembered being very angry towards Diyana haha it was a joke during sec 4 i threw the chair around . i hope you know its a joke, i told you alr?

What I'm saying is, being patient is the best thing that you can do for yourself and others around you. Of course, there will be people who will ignore being patient and just care for themselves. I think the first step to being patient, like really patient and having really good self-discipline, is to not just care for yourself but to care for others as well. Not just the elderly lady who falls flat on the ground and only then you want to help, but really, the care must be there.

im your counsellor for today.
and practice what you preach. =)

Also, cant wait for BBQ on friday with 4E7 im so impatient! /jk
haha.